Almost
all of us have at one time or another filled the slot of “Monday morning
quarterback.” It is so easy to watch our favorite quarterback on Sunday
afternoons make a multitude of mistakes and then Monday morning around the
water cooler explain what we would have done different.
Equally
troubling is listening to those Monday morning quarterbacks tell us why we are
suffering, or undergoing our current trials. Many people are merely trying to
help us, and they even think they might even be encouraging us. We just want to
yell back at them things like, “How do you know how I feel?” “How can you even
come close to feeling the pain or hurt that I am experiencing?” How dare you
think I might be guilty of sin which in turn has brought down on my poor wicked
head the trouble that now is surrounding me?
I
want to share with you several possibilities for the pain that we often
experience in our Christian life. As far as I can deduce from the Scriptures
pain, suffering, trials, tribulations, and even testings do not come upon us
but for a reason or reasons known to God. There is a biblical perspective for
suffering. We may not know at the time or for quite some time the reasons why
we are experiencing the pain that we suffer. Quite frankly, we may never know
this side of heaven why we are undergoing the difficulties that may be pounding
us mercilessly.
At
best James, the brother of Jesus and former pastor of the Jerusalem Christian
Fellowship in Jerusalem, circa AD 33, gives us the best piece of advice that
anyone could ever give us. In the very context of trials of various kinds,
including the testing of your faith, James encourages us to pray and ask God
for wisdom to respond properly and wisely to what we are experiencing. Listen
to him:
“If
any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives generously to all
without reproach, and it will be
given him. But let him ask in faith with no doubting…”
The
following reasons are suggested as to why you, someone you know, or even me may
be suffering or undergoing trials or tribulations. These reasons are not
original with me. They are taken from notes of sermons I have heard, from
research in sermons and series I have both preached and taught. These
suggestions come from various pastors, authors, books, and even from internet
articles. I give the ultimate credit to God for His glory and truly give credit
to the many pastors, authors, bible teachers who have over the years added
these viable hints of why our glorious, loving, omnipotent, and merciful God
allows us to experience the most physical, emotional and spiritual pain
possible.
We
are called to and given the gracious gift of suffering in order….
To Comfort others who suffer
II
Corinthians 1:4
As we have suffered in
specific or concrete ways, we have become prepared vessels in order to render
comfort and aid to others in the body of Christ who are suffering similarly.
God extended his grace throughout your suffering and what you learned you now
can be his hands and feet to extend grace to someone who may be asking why
Lord? God grants us compassion for others in order to further reveal Himself to
those yet in pain.
To destroy our self-reliance and trust
II Corinthians 1:9
God designs trials to destroy
our self-sufficiency. The battle for control never ceases in our lives. When
things are going well the tendency is to forget the continual need to rely on
God for everything. Trials and
tribulation have a tendency to jolt us back into the reality that we are
dependent on God for everything all of the time.
To develop a life-habit of thanksgiving
II Corinthians 1:11, I
Thessalonians 5:18, Ephesians 5:20
We are called and expected to
give thanks in everything. The Scripture makes it clear that everything we have
we have received. In other words, we would not have one thing that we have if
God did not give it to us. Therefore, we are to be thankful. Trials or
tribulations remind us to be thankful even when it is hard.
To be more fruitful
John 15:2
I use to have 21 rose
bushes. I loved my roses and I worked hard on them. In order to keep them
healthy and to give my roses opportunities to produce more “fruit” or roses, I
had to periodically prune them. I had to “disturb” them by digging around their
“comfortable” roots and break up the dirt that had become dry, hard, and void
of nutrients. I had to take pruning shears and cut into healthy living
branches. Those cuts were then susceptible to infection and disease. I had to
seal them with sprays and keep watch that infection didn’t set in. The process
was “painful” to the roses. Year after year I had large, vibrant, colorful, and
innumerable roses.
God does the same thing to
us. He has designed us to produce fruit (Galatians 5.) John 15 tells us the
pruning process in the lives of believers. God will “disturb” the hardened soil
of our lives and cut out the branches that are not producing in order to give
us the opportunity of producing more fruit. God is never satisfied with some
fruit, a little fruit – He always wants more fruit.
Proves the reality of our faith.
J ob 2:10, II Corinthians
12:10, James 1:2-18
Faith is a gift that this
given by God. The danger we face is having a faith that is really not faith. In
the parable of the Sower we see four different seeds sown. Yet only one of
those seeds was proven to be true or alive; the one that produced fruit. Trials
and tribulation, suffering, and pain will be the instrument God uses to prove
that our faith is real and not a “false” faith. Paul gives us great advice when
he tells us to “examine our faith”, “see if we are really in the faith.” We can
misplace faith. We can put faith in ourselves, a formula or activity, or even
in an idea. It can be illustrated by many people who are actually in love with
love rather than someone as the object of their love.
To Increase and develop our faith
Job 40:4-5, James 1:2-4,
Job 42:5, Deuteronomy 29:29
We are to grow in our
faith. It is a tragedy multiplied over when we see someone who has grown
physically in body to an adult yet they remain mentally and emotionally an
infant or little better. God gives faith in measures to us as He pleases, yet
he expects us to develop and to grow. Prosperity or good times are not very
conducive to spiritual growth due to the fact that we “don’t need God” when
everything is cool and we have it under control. God is always at work to
stretch us, develop us, and take us to new heights. His goal is to conform us
to the image of His dear Son.
I know this is a hard one
for some folks. They can sometimes accept the fact that trials or tribulations
may come because they have sinned or because the world hates them and has it
out for them. But to think that God in His good pleasure purposely allows these
things in our lives simply to further develop us is hard to fathom.
To Disciplines and train us
Hebrews 5:8, 12:7, I
Corinthians 11:29-30, Psalms 119:67.
It is no secret that trials
can be at times God's rod of correction. God has made it very clear that He
disciplines those who are His own true sons. He may use an illness, death,
accident, loss of job, family turmoil, a foreclosure, unfounded and damaging
accusations, or worse to train us in holiness and righteousness.
You must always guard
against shrugging most trials or tribulations off as something as an attack
from the Devil, or our constant struggle with sin, or even, “that’s the way
life is sometimes.” Many times we miss the point of God’s disciplining hand in
our lives. Know this well, God does not punish His children. No discipline or
correction should never be construed as God being angry with us or is punishing
us. His corrections are rare, but they begin gently with the goal of bringing
us to repentance.
Well, here are seven
reasons why God allows suffering, opposition, trials, tribulations, and
testings into our lives. We are called to suffer. God has given suffering for
Christ’s sake as a gracious gift for our benefit. Meditate on these reasons,
take them to heart, and find comfort in them as your experience pain, sorrow,
or heart-break.
Tomorrow Lord willing we
will share seven more reasons for suffering. See you then!